As a parent, you develop a mindset of the superhero—or, in my case, superSHEro. When my daughter was born, I automatically began to act in a way that would change the world for her. I started with me, constant trying to be my best self, be more savvy with my money, provide for and shelter this child—because through her, I live forever. I’m her superhero, going above and beyond to save the world (or change the world) for her. I wear that cape for her!
Then I became a teacher and was awarded another cape. I now am a superhero for my students, because through them, I also live forever. The values I hope to instill in them, the drive I pray they develop as a result of the interactions and lessons between them and me. For some, I am actually their mother, friend, lawyer, social worker, and more for the eight to ten hours that they are at school each day. Teachers are superheroes: Through our students, we change the world.
So I wear two capes—sometimes at the same time, and sometimes sacrificing one cape to wear the other. But my constant dilemma is when to take one off to put the other on. I’m the sole provider for my child, so there are some risks I am not willing to take when it comes to job stability. However, I have to think about all of the other children who need someone to take a chance, innovate, and do something radical for them. Which cape bears the most weight? Which cape is the most important? Save the world…or save my girl?